Outing With Jocelyn to meet Yoong 27/08/09

Yesterday kena injection wuwuwu...because my face allergic with the product..i think it should be antibiotic the vaccine..haha!!!Today still red red a bit la..lol!!!I love the panda cake..go out with jocelyn to meet yoong in gurney plaze...hehehe!!!happy day i very talkative today...

忍耐！

为什么每一次都是女人忍耐而不是男人！男人都什么都不理为何那个女的还要想那么多呢？为什么要那么笨？我很累啦！忍就算一整天我也忍但是其实我不开心！他都不知道！只好哭完了，心里有点舒服！我不希望他对我特别好，因为如是一次对我不好，我会很伤心！平淡就好啦！沟通的来我就很满意！不要喜欢就理，喜欢一天都不理我！

Boring Day

My sis artistic leh...wakakkaka....so bored la..just make crazy ting at home then not boring...hahaha~~Actually got asignment to do de but then din do!!!my face red red...wuwuwuw...

Outing With Jojo 21/08/09

Hohohoh...outing with jojo to quensbay~wohohoho.....

一个人!!

Today on the way to college ,i go to eat ayam goreng at mamak store wakaka...at Lebuh Union ~nice !!i eat alone...kind of bored but is fun at times...我觉得好孤单，如是有你陪在我身边就好。但不知道我的要求几时才会实现！偶尔我想你。。真的很想你的时候，都希望你能在我身边但是我还是那句。。我慢慢等就会有！只好安慰自己你爱我，我就不该想那么多！也许这几天觉得话题也比较少啦！有时候我会问自己，什么是爱情？怎样才算是一起？每当我想你的时候，我就会看着你以前发给我的信息，哪是我最好的安慰！有时候我想的更加远的时候会发觉到我和你的距离是那么的远！好啦！不想！那天跟文文聊天，聊到不停不停。。哈哈～为什么我和他说话的时候就不能像和文文聊天的时候那么开心？好啦！不做比较！这周末他要去做义工，不知道星期日还能和他聊天吗？好啦！睡啦～ :*

New Hair Style~

Recently mood good haha...take new photo with new hair style~yahooooo...whoo Hoo!!my dear say 嘴很性感～haha!got meh~~hahahahah....i love my hairstyle....

Happy Birthday ～ :*

生日快乐～哈哈！想你啊！！好开心今天讲了那么多话！！嘻嘻！但是还是很想你～会肉麻吗？我们开心就好啦！幸福快乐！你知道吗！我听到你说你其中一个愿望是想给我幸福！我很开心～

真心话

我是睡不着还是我自己想太多！今天他和我说那些事情！我真的很惊讶！我多么希望他是没事的！只要他做他该做的事情，我就不会那么担心你！说真的就算他有什么事发生我真的不会离开他。因为爱一个人就是要和他一起不管是生老或病！不是吗！！如果有一天没有了他，我的生命真的没有他就会很静，寂寞！！那时候我只是会怀念着我和他的快乐.就算是短短的日子我和他一起的很开心～记得我说的话：不要叫我离开你！！爱一个人就要一起分担或分享快乐或伤心！！希望你一切顺顺利利！！

Daddy say '' order whole list of HI-Tea easier''

Yesterday 8/8/09 my daddy take us to Xuan Xin Restaurant again..wakakak...daddy lazy to order and end up order all the RM5.80 tea time...not very big size nia the food..haha~~LAstly end up in Queensbay and i bought a NIke back pack hahaha~~i though i should support Adidas not nike...adidas sponsor chelsea ma!!

On my way to COLLEGE~~

How to have a HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP

1.Do not expect anyone to be responsible for your happiness. Ask yourself why you didn't? Too often relationships fail because someone is unhappy and blames their partner. Your life is SOLELY under your control, with your relationship you have to take the good with the bad. You need to give as well as take.

2.Make and keep clear agreements. Respect the difference between yourself and your partner. Don't expect he or she agrees with you on everything. Reach mutual agreement or plan, and then commit to it. If you say you're going to meet your partner for lunch at noon, be on time, or call if you're going to be late. If you agree to have a monogamous relationship, keep that agreement. Keeping agreements shows respect for yourself and your partner, as well as creating a sense of trust and safety.

3.Use communication to establish a common ground to understand different points of view and to create a mutual, collaborative agreement or plan. You can either choose to be right, or you can have a successful relationship. You can't always have both. Most people argue to be "right" about something. They say. "If you loved me, you would..." and argue to hear the other say, "Okay, you're right." If you are generally more interested in being right, this approach will not create a healthy relationship. Having a healthy relationship means that you have your experience, and your partner has his or her experience, and you learn to love and share and learn from those experiences. If you can't reach any mutual agreement, that doesn't mean either of you is wrong or bad.

4.Approach your relationship as a learning experience. Each one has important information for you to learn. A true relationship will consist of both partners who need to equally contribute. Not only is that the only type of relationship that will work out, but it will work out in both of your favor.

5.Tell the unarguable truth. Be truthful to yourself and your partner if you want true love. Many people are taught to lie to protect someone's feelings, either their own or those of their partner. Lies create disconnection between you and your relationship, even if your partner never finds out about it. For any sort of relationship to work you need to have trust.

6.Forgive one another. Forgiveness is a decision of letting go of the past and focusing on the present. It's about taking control of your current situation. Talk about the issue and try to reach a mutual agreement on how to handle the situation in the future and then commit to it. If you can't reach an agreement, it's a bad sign. If you learn from the past and do not repeat the same pattern, it's a good sign. It's the only way to prevent yourself from more disappointment, anger or resentment. Respect your partner, when your partner tells you to leave them alone, do give him or her the time and space.

7.Review your expectations. Try to be as clear as you can about any expectations - including acceptable and unacceptable behaviour and attitudes, especially attitudes towards money. Everybody needs love, intimacy, affection, and affirmation.

8.Be Responsible. Here's a new definition: Responsible means that you have the ability to respond. Respond to the real problem, to your true needs. It does not mean you or your partner are to blame. There is tremendous power in claiming your creation. If you've been snippy to your partner, own up to it and say sorry. You'll be amazed how this works

9.Appreciate yourself and your partner. In the midst of an argument, it can be difficult to find something to appreciate. Start by generating appreciation in moments of non-stress, and that way when you need to be able to do it during a stressful conversation, it will be easier. One definition of appreciation is to be sensitively aware so you don't have to be sugar-coating anything; so tell your beloved that you love him or her, and that you don't want to argue but to talk and make it better.

10.Admit your mistakes and say sorry. Right after a misunderstanding or argument, tell your partner to give you some time to think of the wrong and right things that you and he/she did. Tell your partner to do the same thing and talk to them after 10-15 minutes. Tell your partner to give you time to talk and explain to them why you were angry, the wrong things you did, the things they did that you did not like and what you would like them to change. Ask your partner to do the same thing and give them a fair chance to talk and explain also. This will make your relationship stronger and help strengthen the communication between you and your partner.

11.Spend some quality time together. No matter how busy you two are, there is always an excitement when you do something together, when you share your precious time. Play a sport, eat at a restaurant, watch your favorite movies together. You will feel the magic of love and connection that you have with each other.

12.Laugh. Not only is it true that laughter is the best medicine, but it's also true that laughter can make a great relationship. In a tedious relationship, it is hard to communicate with your partner and share humorous feelings. Not only does laughing bring you two closer, but it also makes you seem fun and approachable.

Hooohooo....Nice food